Trump must fail
at everything, in his presidential duties, because any success would require
being part of humanity. But the feeling of being in humanity is beyond anathema
to him. For him, to get even a sense of bond and benevolence is to be forced to
feel the complete absence of love in his childhood. And to feel that loss is to
feel unhuman, his utter aloneness, a being that never left the starting gate of
birth, a waste of body and soul.
So every single
thought or path must veer away from the known good, the caring. In the same way
that a Reactive-Attachment child, broken from her mother at birth and institutionalized
and adopted, must lie unnecessarily, must lie always and primitively not to feel
reality, the reality of her initial failure, so Trump must never touch the
good, the holding of others’ hands in love and life. He is the magnet only
bonding negative to positive.
Immigrant
children. Allies. Truth-reporting pundits. Medicaid. Pardoning of reprobates. The
Kurds. NATO. Dismantling of the civil service. Budget cuts devastating rural
America. White supremacists. Love of Putin. Disaster response. Firing the
pandemic response team. On and on and on and on. The coronavirus. How could a president
act incompetently and stubbornly in the face of a pandemic? He must. He cannot allow himself to be
good. It’s too terrible a reminder.
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Comments are welcome, but I'd suggest you first read "Feeling-centered therapy" and "Ocean and boat" for a basic introduction to my kind of theory and therapy.