David Corn of Mother
Jones, at https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2020/03/beyond-narcissism-trumps-other-personality-flaws-are-putting-americans-at-risk/,
describes “two other fundamental elements of Trump’s character” besides his
Narcissism, one being his “obsession with revenge.”
In fact,
Trump's revenge need is a facet of Narcissism, which also features contemptuous
anger toward people (including even Putin, if it came down to a two-man competition).
After all, a Narcissist is a solipsist: The world is only mirrors, he sees only
himself as real and meaningful. Therefore no one else's opinion can possibly
have any validity. As a Narcissist has no "real self" (a time-honored
psychological concept) and exists only as a mental self-concept of self-regard (his
sense of superiority is just his sense of being the “only” actual person*),**
any meaningless person's questioning of him is the questioning of an idea, the
denial of it, the disintegration of his identity. He must then strike back five
times,*** ten times,**** fifteen times harder,***** literally to save his life.
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* A Narcissist
doesn’t think he is merely superior to other people. Essentially, he is not comparing
himself to other people at all. He is differentiating himself from all
others. He is alone. He is the One, the rest are Zero. That’s in the nature of
Narcissism.
** A mental self-concept
and the ‘chemicals of emotion’ that associate with it: https://pessimisticshrink.blogspot.com/2019/05/trump-chemistry-of-bad.html.
The following quotes
are from the above-referenced David Corn article.
*** From a 2012
Trump speech: “If somebody hits you, you’ve got to hit ’em back five times
harder than they ever thought possible.”
**** Trump’s
2011 speech to the National Achievers Conference in Sydney, Australia: “Get
even with people. If they screw you, screw them back 10 times as hard. I
really believe that.”
***** Trump’s
2007 speech: “It’s called ‘Get Even.’ Get even. This isn’t your typical
business speech. Get even. What this is is a real business speech. You know in
all fairness to Wharton, I love ’em, but they teach you some stuff that’s a lot
of bullshit. When you’re in business, you get even with people that screw you.
And you screw them 15 times harder.”
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Comments are welcome, but I'd suggest you first read "Feeling-centered therapy" and "Ocean and boat" for a basic introduction to my kind of theory and therapy.