I’ve always
thought that “cognitive dissonance,” the theory that people can’t handle the truth, was as dumb as cat whisker marmalade.
An article in today’s online The Atlantic described the maxim this way:
Cognitive dissonance, coined by Leon Festinger in the 1950s,
describes the discomfort people feel when two cognitions, or a cognition and a
behavior, contradict each other. I smoke is dissonant with the knowledge
that Smoking can kill me. To reduce that dissonance, the smoker must
either quit – or justify smoking (“It keeps me thin, and being overweight is a
health risk too, you know”). At its core, Festinger’s theory is about how
people strive to make sense out of contradictory ideas and lead lives that are,
at least in their own minds, consistent and meaningful.”
Dissonance is
most painful when evidence strikes at the heart of how we see ourselves – when it
threatens our belief that we are kind, ethical, competent, or smart. The minute
we make any decision – I’ll buy this car; I will vote for this candidate; I
think COVID-19 is serious; no, I’m sure it is a hoax – we will begin to
justify the wisdom of our choice and find reasons to dismiss the alternative.
Before long, any ambivalence we might have felt at the time of the original
decision will have morphed into certainty. As people justify each step taken
after the original decision, they will find it harder to admit they were wrong
at the outset. Especially when the end result proves self-defeating,
wrongheaded, or harmful.”*
This is a theory
that has “inspired more than 3,000 experiments.” And it is imbecilic. “The
smoker must either quit – or justify smoking.” How about – “I smoke, and I know
I shouldn’t.” Or, “I have this idiosyncrasy, where my convictions occasionally evaporate
before my urges. I self-sabotage.” Or, “I can’t justify it.” Or, “Lo, I am
imperfect.” How in the name of let's-take-a-poll research did a belief in the psycho-structural
inevitability of human frailty and the tendency of some people to delude
themselves become one of the seminal concepts in psychology? How did the Great
Meme that assumes people can’t tolerate “discomfort” and must twist their way
out of it not get printed on the back page of Popular Science magazine sixty-three
years ago then evaporate from memory with the morning light?
In this time of
Trump, when Narcissism, delusion and rationalization have become pandemic,
psychologists and other writers must deplore these flaws, not reaffirm their false
normality. This is the time to question self-soothing attitudes: We should be
applying a new kind of jackhammer to social thinking and personal hypnosis. If you
value Conservative principles, must you blind yourself to the
president’s psychopathy? If I favor liberal ideology, do I have to love
labor unions or paternity leave? Do you have to think face masks are bad
because you want Trump to be reelected? Do you have to be right? Maybe
the new era, post-Trump and post-insanity, should be a Renaissance of brutal realism,
not another ascendancy of one homogeneous dream program, one cult over
another. Biden will be good, bad, confused and confusing. Some Supreme Court
right-leaning decisions will make sense. Liberalism will be recognized to be right and wrong simultaneously: humane yet coercive. “Woke” will disappear when you wake up and
think for yourself. We could stand a national birth of personal dispassion and unaccustomed
maturity, where a person doesn’t have to be right and comfortable. Where his integrity
will not be a matter of dogmatic faith but of facing the truth. Walt
Whitman knew this: “Very well then I contradict myself, (I am large, I contain multitudes.).”**
Festinger’s achievement was to convince people they are so weak that their eyes will instinctively shut before painful reality. Another founding member of Camp Abject is Martin Seligman with his “learned
helplessness,” the sorry hypothesis that our character bends and breaks, we become certified losers when we have suffered one too many losses. These psychological researchers and others like them have foisted on several generations “a conception quite unworthy of free men”:*** that principles of human psychology are a matter of cynical statistical trends rather than of complex factors in individual lives.
I picture, in
my fantasy mind, a time when most people will be enough to be themselves, will allow
truth to be more important than ego, and not have to cling to a flag, or to
rage. It really would have to be an evolution (clearly more than one election
cycle).
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** Walt Whitman’s
Song of Myself – https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/45477/song-of-myself-1892-version,
verse 51.
*** From Lord
Bertrand Russell’s 1927 lecture, “Why I Am Not a Christian,” from the final
section: WHAT WE MUST DO – https://users.drew.edu/~jlenz/whynot.html.
I came here from your Washington Post, post. I fully agree with the above. It's quite thoughtful.
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